Sunday, November 23, 2008

Quiet strength




She didn't say much.

She didn't make waves.

She provided but stayed out of the light.

Proud of her heritage as 100% Finnish.

Her elbows and chin were pointy, and her nose had a fine little bob at the end. Just like mine.

"Strong as an ox," according to my grandfather, her father-in-law.

A quiet strength and dignity.


That was my mother.




Mom




Mom laughing




Mom and Amos Oct 07_4




Mom and Amos Oct 07_2






My mama and me.


Mom and me

10 beautiful people muttered something back:

daysgoby said...

What a beautiful lady!

Sarah, my thoughts are with you and your family tonight...

e said...

Wonderful pics, thanks for sharing. What a great woman.

Phil "Likes These Pictures" said...

I'm glad your mom had some chances to spend time with Amos while she was still healthy enough to enjoy it and to even play with him on the floor. At least we have a few pictures to remind us of those times and a great picture of your mom holding Baby Binky to remind you of times you can't remember.

Suzanne said...

Sarah, I see a lot of her in you when looking at those younger pictures.

Thanks for sharing.

Amanda said...

I agree with Suzanne. There is a striking resemblance and a certain dignity about you Finnish women.

There is much to be said about quiet strength. My grandfather has probably spoken fewer words to me in my lifetime than I speak in a single day, but I know he loves me. I can see the twinkle in his eyes when we visit him. He makes his sentences meaningful.

Your mom seemed like the type who did for others without demanding recognition, who worked diligently to care for her brood without asking for appreciation. That shows a humility that you don't find in people anymore, and our world has suffered a significant lost in her passing.

This is why Keith's words that she will remain with you are so important. It's up to you to set the example for Amos that your mother set for you, so that he won't fall into the selfish narcissism that is the American citizen these days.

I know I'm preaching, and I'm sorry. I reread your older blogs earlier and really absorbed again what a lovely lady your mama was, inside and out, and I am awestruck. Still keeping you in my thoughts.

Stephen Baker said...

Lovely pictures, especially the ones with Amos.

Crunchy Domestic Goddess said...

Sarah, I am so very sorry for your loss. It sounds like your mom was an amazing woman, just like her daughter is.
My thoughts are with you and your family. Hugs.
Amy

Kimberly said...

She was lovely. That last photo of the two of you made me teary.

Thinking of you.

Anonymous said...

Yes.. she was a beautiful lady...all of us kids have certain resemblances to our mother..Strength...strong headed Finns. She was one of few spoken words…but carried the strength to take care of her family. We love you deeply mother…..Michelle V

Laura said...

Sarah, I'm so sorry to hear about your mom's passing. What a sad way to end the year. :-(